How Do I Get A Guy to generate a Move After I Rejected Her Once?

Hey ,

Your advice is great and generally pertain to guys you’re already seeing. I’m in a different problem. I’m interested in dating a good male friend.

We met while attending college but were never seriously close and reconnected a year earlier purely as friends. Most people started hanging out a lot prior times year. He used to live two hours away so he would drive from far away to find out me. I thought nothing than it. Then he moved to the city and we were all-around each other now. One overnight we went out and he produced a move on me. I froze. This became three months ago. We maintained hanging out then, pretending nothing at all had happened, me sending mixed signals, both of us all casually dating other people.

But I recently pennyless off casual dating mainly because I realized I had robust feelings for him the good news is I wonder if it is already happened? I still spend a long time with him and I don’t want to emasculate him by never letting him make the initial move. We recently got back to a great momentum exactly where it isn’t weird in fact the mixed signals and i also feel like I am ready to make clear I wasn’t rejecting him while he initially made a move on me but was just scared and surprised.

So should I make a move or will that emasculate him? And if perform date, do the same protocols apply? Should I wait to nap with him? Because Personally i think like we already have also been on 100 dates (platonically), We don’t feel weird regarding sleeping with him more quickly than I would wait for a male I really like.

Help please.